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Man sought help after his partner chooses to have sex with a friend because his penis 'doesn't work.'

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Since he is physically incapable of having sex, a man turned to the internet for advice after his wife told him they wanted to have sex with their mate.


The guy posted on Reddit to seek advice, writing, "My penis doesn't fit, and my girlfriend wants to have sex with someone else." Already terrifying, but the specifics of his story are even more so.


"I'm keeping the specifics ambiguous just in case," he said. Essentially, my partner has a mate with whom they've 'promised' to have sex. Before we started dating, the pledge was made, and they've brought it up again, asking me to have sex with their mate.


"I'm not happy about it, but the situation is complicated and fraught with communication problems and the possibility of a break-up." He went on to say that it's partially because of his physical problems.



"Among the most troubling issues is now that my penis is so bent that it is functionally difficult for sex," he wrote. And they want to have sexual relations with this mate. Which I'm afraid I have to disagree with. And there's the possibility of a break-up if I continue to dislike it.


"I'm not sure if I'd be okay with it if my penis worked." I've cried myself to sleep at night about the state of my cock, because it's difficult for me to have sex.


"I can't stand watching porn and realizing I'm sexually disabled for the rest of my life."


"And I've been trying to agree to let them have sex with the friend, which has to happen as a threesome because that's what my partner wants, but the idea of his penis moving inside them makes my stomach tighten.



"That's something I'll never be able to have. I'll still not be able to go through the process of having a child together correctly.


"I have to watch my partner have their first date with someone I feel obligated to say yes to or risk the relationship ending, and I know I'm physically disabled from getting that experience."


Reddit users were sympathetic to the man's plight.


"Go to a hospital," one person advised. This disorder can be treatable by surgery. I'm assuming you're young, and you shouldn't have to go through [sic] life like this."



"Just end it and concentrate on yourself because you don't need this negativity and tension in your life," another advised. It's not worth it, it's not good for you, and you deserve better."


"Your wife is not obliged to have sex with her mate," wrote a third. Nobody is ever under the obligation to have sex. Not even after making a vow. You may always revoke your permission. You may also avoid having sex when you have it.


"Therefore, nothing is compelling your partner to do this." 

She desires sex with her mate. It makes no difference what promises were made in the past.


"It's just an excuse."

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